The holidays are a wonderful, exciting, exhausting, joyful, challenging, chaotic time of the year! We all know this. We all envision it being just like the Hallmark cards and the Christmas movies…all calm and pretty with good food, great friends, loving families and beautifully decorated homes with perfectly wrapped presents magically appearing under the tree without any stress of holiday shopping or meeting business deadlines or expectations just prior to the 25th! Oh yes, and we all love each other deeply and have no unresolved emotional issues or family conflicts to confront when we get home. And did I mention, there are no financial concerns regarding the cost of all of this! Does this sound like your holiday? I wish most of us could say, “Absolutely!”, but my fear is that we’re all somewhere between “Absolutely!” and “No Way!”.
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