After retirement, many seniors decide that aging in place is ideal. It will save money. They won't have to sell a home and move. It just seems easiest. An expert with the University of Massachusetts Boston Gerontology Institute says it shouldn't be a decision that's made in haste.
The Decision to Age in Place Needs Careful Attention
You have to look at your parents' abilities now, but you also must weigh the future. Your dad's parents both had Alzheimer's. While it's not a guarantee, he could be more likely to develop this form of dementia. Your mom's dad died young of heart disease. So did her mom, it can increase her risk of heart disease.
If either of your parents develops a chronic condition years from now, is the house equipped for their changing needs? Do they have acres of land to maintain? Is the house full of steep staircases that may be tricky as mobility or stamina decreases? All of this needs to be considered. While moving to a smaller home isn't ideal, it's easier to do while your parents are healthy.
There Comes a Point Where It's Too Late
If your parent is diagnosed with cognitive health issues, the decline can take years, but it's not a certainty. Within two years, you may find your parent is wandering, losing all bowel or bladder control, and terrified of family members who are now strangers. It may seem affordable to care for a parent on your own, but it's exhausting work and there's rarely pay. Can you afford to provide free 24/7 care to a parent with dementia?
By the time your parent reaches this point, many assisted living communities will no longer admit your parent. You're looking at memory care housing that can be impossible to afford. The less expensive memory care options may not be as appealing to you. Some can seem sad and depressing. Home care is often a better option, but it's something you should look into in advance and not in a rush.
Aging at Home Will Require Help
At some point, your mom or dad may need help from an elder care service. Caregivers remind your parents to take medications. They can cook meals and do the housework. Caregivers can schedule appointments and drive your parents to the doctor's office or medical building. Call an elder care agency to learn more about all of the services that help seniors age at home.
Sources:
https://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2018/08/05/there-window-and-once-closes-closes-forever/N3xrlrjtAtFQoS319O3JsO/story.html
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