March 24, 2021

How to have a conversation with someone with Alzheimer's

Evaluate how you communicate with your loved one.

Much of caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's or dementia is learning how to communicate with them. Always speak softly and slowly with easy-to-understand instructions. Try not to say too much or ask too many questions at once, as this could lead to overstimulation. People often pick up on feelings of uncertainty or irritability, so it's crucial to remain calm and reassuring at all times. Even if your loved one lashes out at you verbally or physically, try not to get upset. Never react with force or violence. If they're in a safe place or someone else can keep an eye on them, walk away from the situation and give yourself time to think and calm down.

To communicate better with a friend or loved one with Alzheimer's, we can consider the following tips recommended by the Alzheimer's Association and Dementia Friends USA:

  • Use a cheerful voice and friendly tone and expression 
  • Be patient and encouraging 
  • Use short and simple phrases
  • Be as clear as possible and avoid using pronouns like "it" and "that"
  • Ask only one question at a time
  • Find ways to turn questions into statements
  • Help them complete their thought if they're struggling  
  • Avoid criticizing, correcting, or arguing

If you are still struggling with communication, you shouldn't be afraid to ask for help. 

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