Whether you’re currently caring for an aging loved one, or they’re just starting to need an extra helping hand, it can be difficult to navigate the pathway towards the sensitive topic of care at home. It’s a process that will take several discussions, and involve a lot of emotions. BrightStar Care of W. Volusia County is committed to helping seniors and their families get the care they need to thrive on a daily basis. Our team has the experience to help you through these first steps.
Understanding Apprehension
There can be several reasons why your loved one may be uneasy at the thought of home care. First off, there is the difficult process of them accepting they need help. It can also be hard to think of inviting a stranger in and having them be a part of some of the most intimate aspects of their life. Additionally, the topic of care at home may also raise concerns on how this will affect their sense of freedom and control.
Some of your conversations will need to revolve around your loved one feeling safe about being open and honest about their feelings. It is crucial that you remain empathetic in order to have a better understanding of where their feelings are coming from and what they are experiencing.
Timing & Talking
Getting the support your loved one needs before it becomes a major emergency is key. You’ll want to have the time you need to find the right agency, set up their care schedule, and get matched with a caregiver. Having conversations before a crisis also eases the stress on your loved one and family.
As previously mentioned, the topic of care at home is a sensitive one. Conversations should be held in a private environment and in person. Ensure that your focus is on your loved one by making eye contact, putting away your phone, and minimizing other distractions. As you listen, pay close attention to their body language to get a better gauge of their current emotional state. This will help you know where to steer the conversation, and when to stop it for another time.
Involving Others
Providing support for a loved one at home takes a group effort. As your having conversations with your loved one about care at home, it’s also important to reach out to others. Family members should have discussions on who will be the primary caregiver, and who will be taking on other roles in their loved one’s care. Could someone be responsible for being there during medical appointments? Managing finances? Working directly with the caregiver? Medical professionals, caregivers, and support groups are other great assets to your care team.
BrightStar Care Can Be There
Whether you’re just taking your first steps discussing extra support at home, or are looking for an agency, BrightStar Care of W. Volusia County can be there. Our care team is comprised of carefully vetted nurses, therapists, CNAs, and caregivers. All with the experience and compassion to bring your family and loved ones the quality care they deserve.