Trust Your Instincts: When to Get Help for Your Aging Parent

The holidays often bring families closer together, but they can also reveal subtle signs that your loved ones might need extra support.
Whether it’s Mom slowing down more than usual or Dad becoming more forgetful, these changes can be easy to overlook during the hustle and bustle of the season.
But if you're noticing these shifts, it might be time to trust your instincts and consider additional care options.

What to Watch For: Key Signs Your Parent Might Need Help

While aging naturally comes with some changes, certain signs indicate that extra support may be necessary. Here are some things to look for:

1. Slowing Down and Difficulty with Mobility

Is Mom no longer as active as she once was? Difficulty moving around the house or a noticeable increase in fatigue could mean she needs extra help with daily tasks and mobility.

2. Forgetfulness and Memory Problems

If Dad seems more forgetful than usual — misplacing items or forgetting important appointments — this could be a sign that he needs assistance with managing daily activities or monitoring medication.

3. Struggles with Personal Hygiene and Self-Care

Is your loved one having trouble grooming themselves or keeping up with basic personal hygiene? Difficulty with dressing, bathing, and maintaining daily routines may indicate that it’s time to explore in-home care options.

4. Safety Concerns at Home

Have you noticed safety lapses, such as leaving the stove on, forgetting to lock doors, or struggling to manage medications? These can be red flags that your parent might need someone to help ensure their safety at home.

How to Start the Conversation

Discussing the need for help with your aging parents can be challenging. But by approaching the topic with compassion, you can make the conversation easier.

1. Start with Empathy

Acknowledge your parent’s desire for independence, and let them know you’re there to support them. Frame the conversation in a way that focuses on ensuring their comfort and safety.

2. Address Their Concerns

Reassure them that getting help at home isn’t about losing independence, but about enhancing it. Professional caregivers can step in where needed while respecting their ability to do things themselves.

3. Focus on the Benefits

Talk about how in-home care will provide extra help and companionship, improving their quality of life while allowing them to stay in the comfort of their own home.


 

How BrightStar Care of Conejo Valley and Coastal Los Angeles Can Help

At BrightStar Care of Conejo Valley and Coastal Los Angeles, we provide personalized, compassionate care to seniors in the comfort of their homes. Our in-home care services are designed to support your loved one’s unique needs, whether it’s help with daily activities, companionship, or specialized care for memory loss.

What We Offer:

• Personal Care Assistance: Help with bathing, dressing, grooming, and mobility.
• Companion Care: Offering emotional support, companionship, and meaningful activities.
• Memory Care: Specialized care for those with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia.
• Safety and Fall Prevention: Ensuring a safe home environment to prevent falls and injuries.
• Respite Care: Giving family caregivers a break while ensuring their loved one is cared for.

Next Steps: What to Do Next

• Talk to Your Family: Discuss your concerns with other family members to decide the best course of action.
• Schedule an In-Home Care Assessment: Reach out to BrightStar Care of Torrance Manhattan Beach to schedule a free consultation and get professional guidance.
• Explore Care Options: Learn about the various in-home care services available and how they can help your loved one maintain their independence at home.

Contact Us for In-home Care

Taking action early can prevent bigger challenges down the road. By trusting your instincts and seeking the right support for your parents, you’re not only helping them remain independent, but also ensuring they feel safe, supported, and loved. Let this year be the year you give your parents the care they deserve.

If you're noticing signs that your parents may need more help, BrightStar Care of Conejo Valley and Coastal Los Angeles is here to support you. Contact us today to schedule a free consultation and learn more about how we can help your loved ones live their best lives at home.

BrightStar Care of Conejo Valley and Coastal Los Angeles is here to provide the resources and support you need to care for your loved one. Contact us today to learn more about caregiving services! Our office is located at 1327 Post Ave Suite Unit J, Torrance, CA 90501. You may also call us at (310) 230-5258.

 

FAQs

1. How do I know if my loved one needs in-home care?

Look for signs such as difficulty with daily tasks (e.g., bathing, dressing), memory loss, mobility issues, or safety concerns. If your loved one is struggling with any of these, in-home care can provide valuable support.

2. How do I start the process of getting in-home care for my parent?

Start by having a conversation with your family members and then schedule an in-home assessment with a professional caregiver. This will help assess your loved one’s needs and create a personalized care plan.

3. What services does BrightStar Care offer?

We offer a range of services, including personal care, memory care, companionship, safety checks, medication reminders, and respite care, all tailored to your loved one’s needs.

4. How can I afford in-home care?

In-home care is often more affordable than nursing homes or assisted living. BrightStar Care works with insurance providers and offers flexible payment options to make care affordable for your family.

5. How can BrightStar Care help my family during the holidays?

We offer flexible, compassionate care that can provide your loved one with the support they need while allowing you and your family to enjoy the holiday season with peace of mind.