When an elderly loved one is no longer able to care for him or herself, the burden often falls on the family. An aging parent or grandparent will not always ask for additional help, and so it is up to family members to recognize that loved ones need assistance.
“We can’t always rely on our elderly loved ones to communicate their concerns with us,” says Sharon Roth Maguire, geriatric nurse practitioner and Senior Vice President of Quality and Clinical Operations for BrightStar Care®. “There are signs that will help you recognize when a family member needs a little more help and in-care assistance can often ease the burden.”
Maguire says these five signs indicate it might be time to get professional help for your elderly loved one:
- Confusion Over Medications: As family members age, memory
loss should be considered a red
flag. Your loved ones confusion over daily tasks, especially medication
management should be a cause for concern. If a grandparent or parent is
forgetting to take medications or taking double doses, it may be time to consider
an in-home nurse. This is one of the most important signs to look for as
medication mismanagement can contribute to worsening confusion and a host
of other concerning health outcomes including full blown medical crises.
- No Longer Able to Drive: Physical
and mental decline might prohibit loved ones from doing the things they
normally do, including driving a car. If your loved one is missing
doctor’s appointments or unable to make it to family occasions, this might
be a sign they are in need of extra care.
- Inability to Manage Finances: Maintaining finances are
difficult enough as it is, and when aging family members are unable to
take care of their financial obligations there can be repercussions. If
you notice large piles of unsorted mail, bills piling up, or debt
collectors leaving messages, it may be time to consider an in-home nurse who
can evaluate your loved one’s cognitive status and medication regimen to
see if there are any health related concerns that may be interfering with
their ability to manage their own finances.
- The House is a Mess: Physical challenges, pain, or
depression may limit ability to clean and organize, and this will be
apparent when your loved one can’t maintain a tidy home. Dishes in the
sink, spoiled food in the refrigerator, piles of dirty laundry and extreme
clutter might be a sign it’s time to think about getting professional
- Infrequent bathing: If you notice your loved one
has not been bathing or showering as often as usual, it might be because
of physical hardship, depression, or memory loss. This is a sign that your
family member needs a little extra help with daily tasks, and in-home
assistance could be the solution.
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