Caring for a Loved One with Alzheimer’s: Support & Strategies
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Caring for a Loved One with Alzheimer’s: Support & Strategies

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July 14, 2025
Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s is a journey marked by deep love, unexpected challenges, and quiet moments of resilience. As the disease changes the person you know, it also requires you, as a caregiver, to adapt, to find strength in uncertainty, and to offer comfort when words may no longer connect.

Whether you're just beginning to navigate a diagnosis or you're in the thick of daily family caregiving, you do not have to face this journey alone.

Recognizing the Stages and Symptoms of Alzheimer’s Care

Understanding the progression of Alzheimer’s is essential to providing the right care at the right time. While the disease affects everyone differently, it generally follows a pattern of cognitive and functional decline that can be grouped into three stages: early, middle, and late.
  • Early Stage (Mild): In the early stage, individuals may still function independently but begin to experience memory lapses, such as forgetting names, misplacing objects, or struggling to find the right words. They might also become more easily confused or disoriented in unfamiliar situations. At this stage, emotional support and early planning are key, both for the individual and their caregivers.
  • Middle Stage (Moderate): This is often the longest and most challenging phase for families. Symptoms become more pronounced, such as increased confusion, changes in behavior or mood, difficulty performing daily tasks, and disrupted sleep. Communication becomes harder, and your loved one may begin to forget important life details or require help with basic hygiene and dressing. 
  • Late Stage (Severe): In the final stage, Alzheimer’s affects physical functioning as well as memory. Individuals may lose the ability to speak coherently, recognize loved ones, or move independently. Full-time care is usually necessary, and the focus shifts to comfort, dignity, and emotional connection through non-verbal means like touch, music, or a calming voice.

Emotional Impact on Families and Caregivers

Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s is often described as a “long goodbye”—a gradual shift in identity, connection, and roles within a family. It can bring moments of deep tenderness, but also profound grief, guilt, frustration, and exhaustion. These emotional highs and lows are completely normal, yet they can take a heavy toll over time.

One of the most critical challenges caregivers face is recognizing the signs of burnout in themselves. Fatigue, irritability, depression, sleep disturbances, and withdrawal from social activities are all red flags. When left unaddressed, burnout can lead to serious health consequences, both physically and emotionally.

That’s why support systems matter. At BrightStar Care, we understand the intense demands of Alzheimer’s care, which is why we offer flexible respite care services to give family caregivers the chance to rest and recharge. Whether you need a few hours a week or help during a personal emergency, our team is here so you don’t have to do it all alone.

Building a Supportive Caregiving Environment

At BrightStar Care, we understand that a stable, comforting environment is essential for individuals living with Alzheimer’s. That’s why we go beyond basic home care; we help families build daily structure, maintain a sense of security, and preserve meaningful connections at home.
  • Creating Routines That Provide Comfort: Familiarity brings calm. Our care teams help establish personalized daily routines that reduce confusion and promote predictability, whether that’s eating meals at the same time each day, following a gentle morning care routine, or incorporating calming evening rituals. We tailor these routines to your loved one’s preferences and energy levels, making each day smoother and more manageable.
  • Adapting the Home for Safety and Accessibility: Safety is never an afterthought. Our care team can help identify potential hazards, such as tripping risks, poor lighting, or confusing floor plans, and offer simple, practical modifications to make the home safer, whether it’s installing grab bars, simplifying room layouts, or labeling drawers and doors. 
  • Communicating with Compassion and Clarity: When words become harder to find, our caregivers use techniques rooted in patience and presence, like speaking slowly, using gentle cues, and reading non-verbal signals. Every interaction is an opportunity for connection. At BrightStar Care, we train our team to meet each moment with empathy, even when communication becomes challenging.

Strategies for Managing Daily Care

Daily care for someone with Alzheimer’s is more than a checklist—it’s about preserving dignity, promoting comfort, and supporting both physical and emotional well-being. At BrightStar Care, we take that responsibility to heart and provide hands-on help where it matters most.
  • Supporting Personal Hygiene, Meals, and Mobility: From bathing and dressing to preparing nutritious meals and assisting with walking, our caregivers approach each task with respect and discretion. 
  • Handling Difficult Behaviors and Sundowning: Aggression, restlessness, or confusion, especially during late afternoon or evening hours, can be incredibly difficult to manage. Our caregivers are trained to respond calmly and redirect behavior in ways that reduce stress. With thoughtful timing, soothing activities, and environmental adjustments, we help ease agitation and provide comfort during these vulnerable moments.

What Makes Our In-Home Care Stand Out

Families choose us because our caregivers don’t just show up, they show heart. We match clients with compassionate professionals who are not only trained in memory care but also attuned to the emotional needs of each individual and their family.

Scott Johnson, whose mother is in the moderate to late stages of Alzheimer’s, shared his experience with one of our exceptional caregivers:

All of the caregivers from BrightStar have been uniformly good, but I wanted to give a special shout out to Ivy who, quite literally, treats my mother as if she were her own! In the moderate/late stages of Alzheimer’s, mom can be quite difficult but Ivy remains unphased, is extremely attentive and has a knack for making mom comfortable & happy.

It’s this level of attentiveness and emotional intelligence that defines our approach. Ivy doesn’t just assist with care, she brings exuberance, patience, and joy into the home. Her presence turns a potentially challenging day into one filled with warmth, laughter, and reassurance.

We always look forward to her visits, she is an absolute gem!” —Scott Johnson

Whether it’s easing agitation, lifting someone’s mood with a well-timed smile, or creating comfort through familiarity, our caregivers bring their full selves to every visit. They are carefully selected not only for their credentials but for their character, because we know that in Alzheimer’s care, how we make someone feel matters just as much as what we do.

Contact BrightStar Care of Conejo & Simi Valley Today! 

BrightStar Care of Conejo & Simi Valley is a female-owned and operated company that provides you with the resources and support you need to take care of your loved one. Contact us through our website or at (805) 233-3800 or visit us at 370 N. Westlake Blvd. Suite 120, Westlake Village, CA 91362, and speak with one of our experts who will help you get started!