Maybe you noticed Mom slowing down more than usual, or perhaps Dad’s memory isn’t as sharp as it once was.
These subtle changes can be easy to overlook during the busy holiday season, but they may be signs that your parents need more support than they’re getting. If you're unsure about what to do next, trust your instincts.
Have You Noticed These Subtle Signs in Your Parents Over the Holidays?
It’s natural to think that your parents are simply “getting older,” but sometimes those subtle signs may mean they need extra care.
Is Dad forgetting things more often?
Has Mom’s energy been lower than usual?
Keep reading to find out how to recognize when it’s time to step in and get help.

Recognizing the Signs of Change
As our parents age, it’s natural to see some changes. However, when these changes begin to affect their daily life, it may be time to consider how they’re managing on their own. Here are a few signs that can help you determine if your loved ones need additional care:
- Slowing Down: Is your mom, who used to be active, now having trouble keeping up with her usual routine? Difficulty with mobility or increased fatigue may be a sign that she needs more assistance to stay safe.
- Memory Issues: Forgetfulness is a common sign of aging, but when it begins to interfere with daily tasks or safety, it could be an early sign of something more serious. If Dad seems confused or forgetful more often, it may be time to explore memory care options.
- Changes in Personal Hygiene: If your loved one is struggling with basic self-care tasks, such as grooming or bathing, this may indicate they need help with activities of daily living (ADLs).
- Safety Concerns: If you notice your parents having difficulty managing their medications, getting around the house, or remembering to turn off the stove, it could be a sign they need extra support to stay safe at home.
Not Sure If Your Parents Need Help? Here’s What to Watch For...
The signs might be subtle, but they’re there.Has Dad seemed more forgetful?
Does Mom struggle with things she used to do easily?
Keep reading to see what these signs mean and how to approach the conversation about in-home care.
Trust Your Instincts—And Seek Help
It’s common for adult children to feel uncertain about stepping in or acknowledging that their parents need assistance. But when you notice these changes, trust your instincts. It’s not about overstepping; it’s about ensuring your parents continue to live comfortably and safely.Have you noticed your parents struggling with something they never did before? If so, it might be time to explore care options that provide the support they need. Whether it’s helping them with personal care, assisting with mobility, or providing companionship, in-home care can make a world of difference in improving their quality of life.
Worried About Your Parent’s Safety? Here’s What You Can Do...
If you’re feeling concerned about your parent’s safety, it’s time to act. Don’t wait for an emergency to happen.Take steps now to ensure they get the support they need, starting with an in-home assessment.
Getting the Support Your Parents Deserve
The beginning of a new year is the perfect time to start fresh and take action. If you’re unsure where to begin, consider starting with an in-home care assessment. A professional caregiver can evaluate your loved one’s needs and create a tailored care plan that addresses their unique requirements.BrightStar Care of Conejo Valley and Coastal Los Angeles offers a wide range of in-home care services, from companionship and light housekeeping to skilled nursing and memory care. Our trained caregivers provide compassionate care in the comfort of your loved one’s home, ensuring they get the support they need to live safely and independently.
Is In-Home Care the Right Choice? Here’s How to Find Out...
Taking action early can prevent bigger challenges down the road. By trusting your instincts and seeking the right support for your parents, you’re not only helping them remain independent, but also ensuring they feel safe, supported, and loved. Let this year be the year you give your parents the care they deserve.
Next Steps to Take
- Talk to Your Family: Discuss your concerns with family members and get their input on how best to support your loved one.
- Schedule an In-Home Care Assessment: Reach out to a trusted home care agency, like BrightStar Care, to schedule a free consultation and get professional guidance on your next steps.
- Explore Available Services: Learn about the different services that can be provided, from personal care and medication reminders to skilled nursing and memory care.

Peace of Mind for You and Your Parents
Taking action early can prevent bigger challenges down the road. By trusting your instincts and seeking the right support for your parents, you’re not only helping them remain independent, but also ensuring they feel safe, supported, and loved. Let this year be the year you give your parents the care they deserve.If you're noticing signs that your parents may need more help, we're here for you.
BrightStar Care of Conejo Valley and Coastal Los Angeles is here to provide the resources and support you need to care for your loved one. Contact us today to learn more about caregiving services! Our office is located at 370 N Westlake Blvd Suite 120, Westlake Village, CA 91362. You may also call us at (805) 233-3800.
FAQs
1. What signs should I look for when considering in-home care for my parents?
Look for changes in mobility, memory, personal hygiene, and safety concerns. If your parents are struggling with daily tasks or seem more forgetful, it may be time to consider support.
2. How can I start the process of getting in-home care for my parents?
Begin by having a conversation with family members, then schedule an in-home assessment with a professional caregiver. This helps evaluate your loved one’s needs and create a personalized care plan.
3. What services does BrightStar Care offer for in-home care?
We offer a range of services, including personal care, medication reminders, companionship, skilled nursing, and memory care, all tailored to your loved one’s specific needs.
4. How do I know if in-home care is right for my family?
If your loved one is struggling to manage daily activities, feels isolated, or has health concerns, in-home care can provide the support they need to stay safe and comfortable at home.
5. Is in-home care affordable?
In-home care is often more affordable than other care options like assisted living or nursing homes. We also work with insurance providers to help cover costs and offer flexible payment plans.